Specialist area

Eating, the body, and self-worth.

You might understand exactly why you do what you do around food. That understanding hasn’t made it stop. The cycle continues, and the promises to yourself keep not quite sticking.

That’s not a failure of willpower. It’s a sign that something deeper needs attention.

What’s really going on

Disordered eating rarely starts with food. In my experience it’s almost always a symptom, a way of coping with, expressing, or avoiding something that hasn’t found another outlet. The food behaviours make sense; even when they’re causing harm they reflect a need or response that hasn’t found another outlet.

Which means that focusing only on the eating behaviours often isn’t enough. You might manage to stop for a while, but without addressing what’s underneath, the cycle tends to come back in one form or another.

The work I do addresses both: the patterns around food themselves, and the emotional and psychological drivers behind them. Not one or the other.

This is careful, supportive work. here is no agenda about what you should eat or what your body should look like – the focus is on helping you understand, work with, and shift the patterns that keep the cycle going.

How I approach this work

Shifting the patterns

We work together to understand and gently interrupt disordered eating behaviours, developing more stable, sustainable ways of relating to food. This isn’t about rigid rules or meal plans. It’s about building enough safety and structure to create room for something different.

Understanding the drivers

At the same time, we explore what the behaviour around food and eating is managing, expressing, or protecting against. This is where the deeper work happens. When those underlying needs are met in other ways, the relationship with food tends to shift naturally.

What this work can help with

Binge eating and compulsive eating

Bulimia and purging behaviours

Restrictive eating

Disordered eating that doesn’t fit a neat diagnosis

Difficult relationships with body image and self-worth

Food as a way of managing emotions

The shame and secrecy that often surrounds eating

A sense of being out of control around food

Ready to talk?

If any of this resonates, the first step is a consultation. It’s a no-obligation conversation where you can share what’s been happening and get a sense of how I work.

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